Thank You

I read an article recently about the two words that your partner needs to hear. The words were "Thank You,"

Now, I'm not perfect by any means, but when I read some of these relationship articles, I have to scratch my head and wonder if I just lucked out or if I really did learn things as I go through life. I've always tried to express my gratitude to Tracy and the people in my life. I know I fall short at times, but I do make a conscious effort.

It isn't just your partner that has to hear these words, and often. It is your kids, your family that need to hear those magic words. Tracy and I don't normally command our children. We ask them. That doesn't mean we sometimes don't fall into the command mode. There are some instance and situations where we need to. I'm talking normal interactions. We ask the kids to clean their room. Even when they misbehave or we have to command them to do it, we make a point of thanking them.

I'm not sure where I got into that habit with them. It is probably just a consequence of my normal behavior. I think it validates the kids' actions. It makes them a feel not only appreciated, but part of the family, perhaps more of a respected relationship status with their parents. I'm not sure if that was part of my own childhood. I know my parents thank me regularly for things that I actually feel obligated to do. I do know that my relationship with my kids is better because of it.

It is amazing what "please" and "thank you" can do for the people in your life. Please try to use it and see if it helps you. Thank you for your time.

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